Values development has been an intended outcome of
membership in fraternity/sorority since the inception of these groups. In
modern day practice, organizations espouse these values front and center
through a review of websites and materials. Advocates of the collegiate
fraternity/sorority experience believe that when members demonstrate their
values, they can be seen as relevant and contributing organizations on a
college campus.
Here’s the problem - values congruence is very difficult to
actualize with traditional-aged college students.
While it’s easy to say that the values movement has “always”
been a part of these organizations , the last 30 years have made the topic of
values and fraternities and sororities as values-based organizations more
salient and more of a focus point because (1) legal challenges have positioned
us as defensive, (2) fraternities need a distinctive niche in a flooded market
of involvement opportunities, (3) college and university presidents told us we
had to focus on this (see Franklin Square Group, 2003) and (4) new member and
intake programs have become more focused on concepts of student development,
which coincidentally has components of aligning actions with values (think
Kohlberg, Baxter-Magolda, etc.). A more
extensive examination of the recent history of the “values movement” can be
found in Veldkamp and Bureau (2012).
Imploring students to align their actions and values has
been a strategy for advising fraternities and sororities for some time
now. Numerous articles have been written
that examine strategies for using values as an approach to advising (for
example, Bureau, 2007; 2009). It has been an approach that has been promoted in
numerous workshops and trainings for fraternity/sorority professionals. AFA has
a core competency focused on values alignment (Association of Fraternity/Sorority
Advisors, 2014). However, I believe that while well-intended, the "live your values" approach is
flawed: The problem with the values movement is not in the nobility of the
goal, but in how we are trying to get there. Here are four reasons I believe the approach
needs rethinking, and some thoughts on what we should be doing differently.
1. The term “Values”
is nebulous – Imagine the average fraternity chapter on your campus.
Imagine walking into a chapter meeting at that chapter house and asking them
“What are your standards?” You might
expect to hear about minimum GPA requirements or minimum standards for
recruitment. Now, imagine walking into a
chapter meeting and asking them “What are your expectations for members?” Again, you might get answers related to
paying dues, attending events, and certain behavioral expectations. Finally, imagine asking them “What does your
chapter value?” What answers do you
expect that you might get? The values
written in their ritual book or the values espoused through their daily
activities?
As Schutts (2013) has suggested, the things on which we
spend our time are the things we value. So, what does that chapter value? Drinking beer? Chasing girls? Hazing pledges? Are those not values? If a student values
those things, and does those things, are they not “living their values?” Merely
using the term “values” is problematic. It is nebulous. It could mean anything.
Different people respond to the word in very different ways. Which leads to the next problem…
2. Values are not an
explicitly overt part of brotherhood – Brotherhood can be thought of as the
foundation of the fraternal experience.
It is the currency of fraternity – it is exchanged by members and sold
to potential new members. In our
research on brotherhood (article in press with Oracle), Josh Schutts and I identified
four distinct ways that fraternity men think about brotherhood –based on
solidarity, based on shared social experiences, based on belonging, and, the
highest form of brotherhood, that based on accountability. When building the
Fraternal Brotherhood Questionnaire (FBQ), an instrument designed to measure
the four schema of brotherhood, we used the terms “values”, “expectations”, and
“standards” interchangeably in building items to measure the accountability
factor (i.e. brotherhood is best demonstrated when members are held to the
chapter’s standards/expectations/values).
When we completed the exploratory factor analysis (EFA) on
the proposed factors, an interesting thing happened – many of the items that
used the words “standards” and “expectations” loaded onto the accountability
factor as expected. Not a single item
that used the word “values” loaded to the accountability factor.
Suspecting that perhaps values are separate from standards and
expectations, we attempted to force a fifth factor using the “values” items. In
the resulting EFA, the values items did not even load with one another, indicating
absolutely no consistency in how the participants responded to the term
“values.” In other words, when it comes to holding chapter members accountable,
the “values” of any given chapter are completely different depending on whom
you ask, and members do not think about values when they think about
accountability. Rather, they think about standards and expectations.
Conceptually, this makes sense: Moses did not come down from
Mt. Sinai with the 10 Values. Two major world religions are not built from a
list of vague values – they are built from a set of very specific standards and
expectations. After all, “thou shalt not
kill” is a little more straightforward than “thou shalt value human life.” If we are looking to alter behavior through
accountability to values, then we may be spinning our wheels.
3. New members aren’t
joining values (or are they)?
We have all seen our fair share of distasteful “rush”
t-shirts. Have you ever stopped to
wonder why we continue to see them, year after year? Could it be that they are
effective at recruiting new members?
Many who work day to day with fraternity/sorority leaders interact
with those who “get it” and want their chapters to be more congruent with
espoused values. The reach of our work is often with a very small fraction of
the fraternity/sorority members on a campus. Potentially, we are out of touch
with the “average” member.
Some of us may have even deluded ourselves into thinking
that WE joined OUR organizations because of the values of the group. I would call this selective memory at
best. When I came to the University of
Tennessee in the Fall of 1997, I had no idea what a fraternity was. I could not have been less interested. But my friend Lake Elliot convinced me to go with
him to the Alpha Gamma Rho house our first weekend on campus, and the rest is
history. It was a place where I felt comfortable, with a group of guys I really
connected with. I joined because I felt
like I belonged there. In hindsight, it
is easy for me to make the connection between my sense of belonging and the
values I shared with both the organization and those in the chapter, but I
would be lying to myself and to you if I said that I joined the values. I
joined a group of people with whom I felt I had a great deal in common. I
valued those people, but I didn’t join for values. Also, there may have been some beer involved.
The fact is, students join chapters for a variety of
reasons. Many join to take advantage of the social benefits and have a good
time, because that is what they value. In those cases, would the rush shirt
depicted above not qualify as “values-based recruitment?” Students are not joining values, but their
values play a significant role in where and why they join. The term
“values-based recruitment” is one we need to remove from our lexicon. Expecting people go live out the values of an
organization, when those values had little to no influence in their decision to
join that organization, is an adventure in futility.
4. Trying to force
students to live the values of their organizations may actually be
counter-productive – As a field, we love to talk about students “getting
it.” I have had a number of conversations with colleagues either bragging
about their UIFI group “totally getting it” or lamenting the students on their
campuses “not getting it.” In the spirit of conformity, I may have even uttered
those words a few times myself. But
what is this mythical “it” that students are supposed to be “getting.” What is
it, exactly, that we want from our students? We assume that we want our students
to “live their values.”
As it turns out, most of us studied a theory in graduate
school that directly speaks to this idea. If you have read Baxter Magolda’s (2008)
theory of self-authorship, then the graphic above should look familiar. As
adolescents, external formulas guide our path, as we largely pursue our lives
as others (parents, teachers) have told us.
At some point, we hit a crossroads where those external formulas no
longer work for us, and we begin to develop self-authorship (the ability to
determine our own life course). Finally, we develop internal foundations, which
is essentially values congruence. As a part of solidifying our internal foundations,
we develop a set of personal values, and live our lives in accordance to those
values. According to Baxter-Magolda,
most adults don’t reach Internal Foundations until their mid-thirties, well
above the age of the vast majority of our undergraduates and even older than most
fraternity/sorority professionals.
So what does this all have to do with the values movement? We
like to tell students that they should live their organization’s values as explained
in the ritual or espoused on websites, instead of their individual values. When
we do this, what we are actually doing is imposing a different external formula
on them. In effect, we are saying “I
don’t like your values, so here – take these values and live them.” If we were
truly concerned about student development, we would be creating cognitive
dissonance in a way that would lead to a series of crossroads and, eventually,
self-authorship. Conversations about how
actions reflect values can and should be part of creating that dissonance, but
when we impose new external formulas on our students, we are limiting their
growth and development.
So, What Should We Be Doing?
I am ready to declare the end of the “values movement” and
the birth of the “brotherhood/sisterhood movement.” We have been talking about values congruence
for the last 20 years, and where has it gotten us? We need a new paradigm – a
new entry point into the conversation with students. My research and work with students has led me
to believe, very strongly, that conversations about values need to be replaced
with conversations about brotherhood and sisterhood. Through these
conversations, we can allow students to see for themselves that
brotherhood/sisterhood without accountability is not really brotherhood or
sisterhood at all. Once they embrace
accountability, they will have no choice but to move their chapters to a place
of values congruence.
I also think we need to focus more of our time, energy and
effort on the moral development of our students. As I asked in Perspectives (2012), what if we
spent as many resources on the moral development of our students as we did on
the leadership development of our students. Leadership is sexy, but the
empirical evidence linking increases in moral development with declines in
anti-social behavior (hazing, sexual assault, cheating, to name a few) is
overwhelming. If we do more to boost the
moral judgment of our students, then values congruence should come about as a
result.
*This blog post is adapted from an article originally published in AFA Essentials and is posted here with permission from the publisher.
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